abortion letter from baby to mommy

The dad is eh. I know I made the right decision but Im feeling really bad and sad right now. When I started getting very nauseous all the time my Mom said I was definitely pregnant and we went to the gynecologist who gave me an ultrasound and said I was pregnant. or Been with him for 5 yrs & hes still married to his first wife and they both share an 8yr old she wont let him see her since she turned 4yrs old but cries about her expressing how much he misses his babygirl. A boy or a girl? God bless you. Then I sobbed when I put the phone down. Oh and one more thing abortion doesnt affect your fertility. Filed Under: Archive, Blog, Let's Talk Abortion, I had an abortion 10 years ago and I still regret my decision because I was living in the country with out a permit at the time I was considered an iligal imegrant and I was afraid what was gone happen to my baby . But I cant help but feel a deep sense of loss and regret over ending the pregnancy. Eventually with some deep talks from my family I booked an appointment and decided it was best not to have the baby I had to have a surgical abortion at 16 weeks . He told me that if I abort this baby we can plan a life together later he promises. Have you done it? Im in my final year in university. I just felt I needed more time to see other heart specialist and doctors to figure out what can be done about my heart before I have another child. Congratulations! It has the potential to work, but like you said, doesnt make sense no matter how hard you look at it. Im balling my eyes out googling help topics because I miss her so much. I cough and drink more water until it goes down, close to you. Heartache and emptiness daily. I have so much pain and hurt in my heart. Breaks my heart. Im not ready for kids. Much love:). I dont want to let you go. purchasing sperm from a donor, via a cryobank We cant afford this baby. I know it not quite the same but its just how I feel. It is a very heartbreak-ling sad feeling. A heart touching letter from a unborn baby to his mother baby is very happy when he is conceived and think that his mother is world's best mom and he share his happiness with his mother telling her all his activities and growing stages in her tummy but his parents decide to abort this baby.. prayatn Follow Advertisement Advertisement Recommended I was in a a similar position. American liberals are debating the merits of "after birth abortion." On 29 July 2015, the unreliable web site Conservative Post published an article titled "Liberals Debate . Im always hunted by guilt almost everyday, same as you Im also working in Nursery school, so I always see kids that reminds of my poor one. Guess what? Wishing all loving thoughts to you. My boyfriend and I decided it was best to have a surgical abortion( I personally recommend this over the pill as I did not want to experience actually passing the baby, bleeding and cramping for weeks possibly!) My husband does not want another child. Now I m just waiting for my appointment but I feel so shit , down and gonna cry all the time. This broke him completely when I got the abortion done. A 33-year-old mother of three from central Texas is escorted down the hall by a clinic administrator prior to getting an abortion, at Hope Medical Group for Women in Shreveport, La., in late 2021. Always imagine what he or she will look like. Cate, If you can handle a child, have it. I cant get the ultrasound picture or the thought of the potential of my baby out of my head. Your state requires that one of your parents be told of your decision 48 hours before your abortion. I think when we choose to do something like that we are so confused. Ive never allowed a man to make me feel like this. According to The Mirror, a mother explained how she would be relieved if her third child died in their sleep because she was too afraid to get an abortion when she was pregnant as the pregnancy . But I dont want an abortion.. its heartbreaking ? I've got twice the appetite and half the energy. Family assumes that I just dont want to have them, when in reality, now, is that no one will have one with me. The silly thing is I want another child. I have seen God cry when rocking little babies in His big loving arms. So heartbroken. Its something I think about every day. I am totally against abortion. Am I selfish for bringing our baby into this world? Like you, I was afraid and let fear took over my life. I dont want to lose you. I was 5 weeks pregnant. He advised me continuing the pregnancy would be a danger and I decided more so on my own after talking with my mother if it was the right decision to make for the baby. I have been sleeping with a guy unprotected for a year now last month I got pregnant and I had a miscarriage I never told him because we are not together. I wish you and your baby love and healthy lives your braver than I was I envy that, I had an abortion in April. I wanted to be your special child. Labor would begin, usually within 12 hours, and the baby would be expelled. I already felt so attached. I might have forgotten what I learned and failed my license exam in the future since Id have to take a leave. Sometimes four days late, sometimes ten days you get the idea. Dont worry though youre not pregnant!. And Im scared because Ive read what an abortion can do or affect my fertility. Hes verbally abusive, Ive spent all my money on him, no savings, lots of debt he makes the money I just make very little. Thank you for sharing. You can do more than you think you can. I remember my boyfriend and I sitting in the car one evening and wondering aloud what it would look like- would it have my eyes, or his nose? I would give anything to hold him. My husband said he would support me whatever decision I make. I know one day when everything is settled down and fine she/he will come again and Ill be more prepared. i struggle deeply with wanting to try again. A judge can excuse you from this requirement. Our relationship has been a roller coaster from start to now. I loved this poem so much, it made me cry. Like you, I was always so excited to become a Mom and I felt a sincere connection as soon as I found out I was pregnant. My advice to you would be do it if YOU want to, dont let nobody not your parents or partner tell you what to do, take some time and think about it because it is a situation that stays with you forever. I really didn't want to die. Don't listen to the voices saying it'll be easier when I'm gone. I have tried to persuade her to look at forums or see a psychiatrist to help her through the guilt but she doesnt want to be associated with the stigma attached with it. We left the hospital with him saying we can try again. Like something to be dealt with, a burden that was his cross to bear. I know the abortion has made me realise how much of an amazing mum I am going to be but I am also so desperate to be a mummy and the loss in my gut cant be put into words. I'm still alive. Same with me 7 years. Baby. I had an abortion past the point of having the pill so had to have the surgery, It was the most painful time of my life physically and emotionally and I never expected it would continue to haunt me. I tell you where eats 4 in a table, there is always a place for a fifth one. We don't need to live in a big fancy house, nothing was ever the same between us. But i wanted to say thank-you because your post was something i came across before i went in for my abortion and it brought me to tears. When I told him I was pregnant the first thing he said is lets get a chicken sandwhich. Im grateful I was in a position to have options and make a choice as a woman. The connection is like no other. I am a teacher and take care of infants to two year olds, Im devastated because in a better situation I would have kept this child. 5 years after that we accidentally get pregnant and have a beautiful baby girl but even after having her I still retreat my choice and he still blaming me as he should I guess but we live a very sad life am trying to have another baby but he is not making as much trying as I do because he say am with you only for my daughter and am living for her to but she always ask for a sister or brother I dont know what to do .so much happened in our life that I think wouldnt be happening if I just have my baby and get married with him . Take care. Does anyone else feel similar? If anyone has any advice, please send it my way. But in reality I know who the dad was because of what had happened on the night we spent together but it did not help my decision as I felt so ashamed. Below is the letter from the woman to her baby in full and without edits. I just keep crying. You may wonder why I say she.. I hope she can forgive me. Massachusetts Democrat told to resign after abortion remarks leave parents irate. If there is a heart beat I really dont feel I can abort but Im afraid the stress he will give me will cause me to miscarry anyway. Then after that we took a break and he broke up with me on the day I got abortion and said that hes moved to a different state and didnt think he wanted to come back home. My arms ache for you. Im only 21 and Im not financially free. I just found out I am pregnant at 42. Abortion pills are the most common way to end a pregnancy in the United States and have become a focus for anti-abortion groups and Republican officials seeking to block access in their states. Like you, i have always wanted to be a mom and it was so hard to make this decision. Yet we faced a third pregnancy two years after deciding that our family was complete. I think Ill visit an abortion clinic to avail of a medical abortion service because its difficult for me to survive if I have a child. In South Africa, 85 000 abortions were induced in the year 2010 according to abort97.co.za. I paced the bathroom, test in hand, pants still around my ankles, repeating curses to myself like a meditative mantra. Thank you for your sorry. Cry Of An Unborn Child by Gabrielle Kruger - Family Friend Poems. I had one 7 years ago and my one and only. I was 14 weeks with two boys already. I just had to message to empathise that this is not an easy decision and I understand the turmoil you are likely going through right now. I am 18 and got an abortion 4 weeks ago. Thank you for your bravery! I want two more children. This hurts me down to my soul. Thanks again for this though, I wish you the best and its great to know I am not alone. So thank you, next week Im going for it, as difficult as it is, as much as I want this child and already love him/her I have to be realistic and also ask, what kind of life would I be offering this child. I want to start by saying that I am skeptical that it is a sincere post. I loved you, my first, my only.. She was worth fighting for. It is sad to see children God has made being murdered. Again, I sleep in the same room as your dad that night, and when my alarm goes off, I get ready to take the bus to work. I feel guilty because I strjuglle to show real excitement when I know others want to when they find out and I feel so false trying to bounce off their energy. I'm sorry Mamma, you couldn't eat and was having nausea. I did an abortion 10 years ago and never disclosed to my them boyfriend who is now my husband. I really care about him, but this all has put a serious strain on our relationship. I was so excited when I found out because I didnt even know if could have kids. Its been two years since my abortion and I always think about that little heart beat. Good luck with that husband. I am turning 23 in two days, on July 24th funny enough. My bf convinced me we werent ready. Be strong for me hold on to me This brings me to a previous pregnancy right before this in which I unfortunately miscarried. Im 28 now and I dont see having a kids in the future maybe because I cant forgive myself with what Ive done. I love him I know I do but I also know he does not feel the same way for me. Its a hard feeling to know that there was energy of ours creating a life for 8 weeks. It wasnt the right time and the best way to move forward is by working to build a life in which you can raise a child in the future. Id give anything to see my baby smile. By Ronald Doe. Luckily I was able to talk to my partner who was incredibly supportive but there were so many reasons for this not being the right time for us. So we did. I have images that its the same as trying to kill one of my current children. Thankyou all for sharing your stories + most of all the letter to the little light. I am a mom. I got pregnant from one night with a guy that I went on a few dates with. And make you scream and shout, My sister just found out she is pregnant and I congratulated her on the phone. I pull out a second test with two pink lines, that I took while on the phone with my sister this time in the apartment, this time repeating different expletives. That, and I literally broke up with him two days prior. Today its been 1 year since the surgery. I am 40 and my husband is not supportive and I feel so alone. "But I could hear her cry. He puts his hand on my thigh and asks, What do you want to do? I ask him, What do you want to do? He replies, I want to do whatever you decide. [https://www.coparents.com/sperm-donors/how-to-find-a-free-sperm-donor-online.php]. Thank you. Im working on it though. When God made me, He gave me a soul I was rattled with anxiety and guilt and overwhelmed. Sending love to all of you going through this situation . I saw a tarot reader 2 years ago and they brought him up and told me he forgave me and understood but I will never forgive myself. Now it is 3 months later and I always find myself looking at bassinets and baby items. But no one talks about it. He says if i get an abortion we must split that Hell respect my decision but we cannot continue together. All my life my dream was to have kids. I want this baby, but I know financially we wouldnt be able to afford it. Share your story, thoughts, and prayers in words, pictures, or video. Just not now. So many people would love to give that little one a home. I am now 48 and very much regret it and really dont know how to go on, but somehow we must. Abandonment threatI couldnt believe it. I dont want to lose you. Made the biggest mistake of my life 4 yrs ago. Hi Sarah, Ive just had a baby (two weeks ago) at 40, I do feel age is but a number. I cry at every baby shower/kids birthday party I go to, in secret of course. Hes basically ignoring me emotionally but talking to me civil. You can always come back. I tell her, I cant. Im honest enough with myself to know that if I leave, I will never will come back. No baby should be murdered by its mother. We have only been together 8 months though. I always thought she would come back to me somehow but only in my sleeping dreams and waking thoughts. I cant make up my mind. I am sad because I already have a connection with the child in my belly and I cry everyday thinking about the fact that I wont be able to hold him or her or see their face. Its been 44 years since my abortion and I think of her every day. Gabrielle Kruger In a letter shared in advance with the Guardian and sent on . but no one wants that for me. I felt very depressed after I let you go - many days were hard to face, some I didn't. I told myself it was hormones. Im 18 and also 6 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend says I have to abort it. I go to sleep the same way I have every night since I found out about you: heartbroken and tearful. Your baby. I dont want you to go through thisit never does go away. My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 years, we have a 9 year old & make about $80K (maybe more) combined income but yet Im contemplating abortion. Weve been married about 10 years and I have children from my previous marriage that she loves as well but cant help being jealous of. Babies need around the clock care for decades; they are nothing like pets. I literally cry every moment I think of aborting it. What makes us experts in Online Poetry Publishing? Im in the beginning of my nursing school. However, reading this, even though it did make me cry, also made me realize I could look at this moment as something to grow from and not just bury it away as a bad memory. Anyway. I was extremely saddened by the Feb. 18 Buffalo News article concerning the 36 actresses who intended to spend hours reading from "The Handmaid's Tale" to benefit . I just remember lying on the table crying my eyes out begging for forgiveness till They put me to sleep . None of it matters. Your dads hand squeezes mine, although I dont think its purposeful, and he asks again, Whats wrong? I look him dead in the eyes, knowing Im about to change his life forever. Everyone had always said about decisions like this that you need to be 100% sure either way but I wasnt sure either way at all. Im doing my final major project in my fashion degree and want my final collection to be inspired by my experience. A young woman writes an open letter to the child she is about to abort and posts it online.. We wouldnt. Im at the point where leaving him is the only option because each day he tells me to get an abortion in person, texts, etc. But I'll also give you plenty of hugs and kisses And sent a special angel to look after me Our family was complete. And I cry every single day. Physically or health wise and its not suppose to be this way. I was diagnosed with a form of heart disease two years ago and the first thing I thought about was how it would affect my life and the babys life. I found out I was pregnant today and through the tears, I scheduled the appointment. I felt you crying when you went to the doctor. I couldnt relate more to this paragraph you wrote: We sit in silence for a little while, then I ask him to sit next to me, and he does, all the while looking surprised. Sometimes I wish I still had my baby. This was with the same toxic individual that I got pregnant the first time with . I didnt touch you, but I felt you. I feel I would regret it everyday for the rest of my life. I have searching for someone going through what Im going through but I have yet to find it. The copyright of all poems on this website belong to the individual authors. I feel like regardless if I keep our baby or not he is not going to be apart of my life anymore. I miss my baby. I had an abortion two years ago and I regret it in some ways, but in others I am massively grateful I did it.

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